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My friend Mariss is always along for the weight loss ride with me, but there are times I honestly think she just brings me down. Although she always says she is in it I know she isn’t! You know that friend that likes to be part of things until she has to actually work at doing them?
There are times I just want to tell her to give it up, or even give it up until she is actually ready to make the commitment it takes to lose weight. You can’t just wish for weight loss and expect it to happen you have to actually work for it. Sadly, I don’t think she has any desire to do anything except be part of the group.
I know from personal experience that losing weight is hard and you are going to mess up and you are going to feel bad about something’s you have done, but you have to pick yourself up, dust off those yoga pants and get back with it. We all fail sometimes…
You didn’t gain this weight overnight, and all of that eating really was harder work than you think it was, you were just too busy enjoying the hard work. LOL
I can’t stress enough all the hell you are putting yourself through if you are not ready to make the commitment. You are miserable and you are probably making everyone else miserable around you. Until you are ready to commit stop frustrating yourself.
You have to want this, and if you don’t truly want it then wait until you do. Find what drives you and work with that. This isn’t for everyone at every moment. You will know when the time is right for you. Something will click. You hear about this clicking all the time! It really is something that just happens and you feel it and you know you are ready.
I don’t want to say give up because I don’t mean that, but decide what you want then act on it. You know how they say think before you speak… think before you try to lose weight because if you are not ready you will never be successful.