Wednesday, May 14, 2014

Just because you are FAT doesn't mean you don't want to be loved!

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I find this video fascinating. I think anyone who has been overweight has felt this way but at the same time I believe the character that is the “fat girl” is overly defensive. Can you imagine being on a date and someone confronting you like she does Louie? This would be my last date with this person that’s for sure.

As for myself, I had a lot of good guy friends growing up and those guy friends might have liked me because I was fun, or had a great personality or whatever, but none of them ever liked me enough to ask me out. Do I think it was because I was fat …? Absolutely!

I don’t think it’s that they didn’t want to be with me, but I think they never asked because they didn’t want to be seen with me as a girlfriend or even a date.  Dating someone who is fat is embarrsing and people will stare at you right?

When I met my husband I was about 60 pounds lighter than I am now, but don’t get me wrong I was still about 100 pounds overweight then. He was an athlete and still gave me a chance and even wanted to date me. Isn’t that sad? I look at ever guy I went out on a date with as someone who gave me a chance. They looked beyond my weight and said why not?

I think I am a good person and I am fun, but 80% of the time I wasn’t ever given a shot. You know that… “Your pretty, BUT….ummm!”  When I say this it isn’t meant in an arrogant way by any means, but I think a lot of men missed out on me. They never gave me a chance because of everything superficial. I am not saying I am a prize catch but you don’t know if someone is worth their weight (no pun intended) until you get to know who they are.


I am the winner in the end because the real man of my dreams is the one I married, the athlete who gave me a shot and never looked back! Every day the perfect couple never happens because some superficial man or woman rejects the person of their dreams and keeps looking for something “better!”

Tuesday, May 13, 2014

Should Painting your Toes REALLY be a Workout?

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The answer is NO! Painting your toes really shouldn’t be a workout… it really shouldn’t wind you and it really should exhaust your entire body to reach down with nail polish remover and remove the old polish and paint your toes with new polish.

By the time I was done painting my toes I was exhausted. I now know why I put off painting my toes so much. WOW! I was beat doing something that should be so simple and easy. It’s crazy to think that the normal average person doesn’t have this problem but I do because I haven’t been willing to change any of my bad habits!

Can anyone else sympathize? How embarrassing that something so simple and easy can be so mentally damaging. Now I understand what fat men are going through when they can no longer see their penis. It’s mentally and emotionally damaging. Ha! No there is a picture! ;-)

Monday, May 12, 2014

Don't Waste Your Calories

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You are so going to want to try these Birthday Cake M&M’s, but I caution you not to waste your calories. Birthday cake flavor is so appealing but you will wish you had those 197 calories back because they are not as good as they sound! They are overly sweet and have a faint (and I mean faint) flavor of birthday cake! Nope I’ll Pass Next Time!

Wednesday, May 7, 2014

An Open Letter to Me!

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I am in a bad place in so many ways, but more than anything I can’t seem to get my mind into this. I want to lose weight I do … I just can’t seem to get focused and just do it. I have done so well in the past then I pissed it all away.

My heart is breaking because I have no control. I don’t even know what is wrong with me but clearly something is…. If you want it so bad then why can’t it happen? Why hasn’t it happened? Why do you let anything at all stand in the way of your dream?

Your dream to wear cute clothes, shop in stores for normal people, and be able to swim in a swimsuit. My goodness you love to swim almost as much as you like to breath yet here you are letting it all come to an end. *BOOM*


You say you want a baby so bad you can taste it, well… the problem with that is time is running out, the clock is ticking, and soon that dream will come to an end. One of your dream will then never ever come true and ONLY because you never allowed it to happen. Why won’t you change, why can’t this happen? Don’t doing this to yourself!
 

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